One of the most difficult challenges we face in our lives is restoring broken relationships. The reasons could be many though looking at the way Obama and Modi have restored India - USA partnership is remarkable :
- Its important to look over cultural differences and embrace other's cultures which could bring people closer to you very quickly.
- Its important to hear other people's opinion , If you can other's hear opinion your opinion also would be valued .
- Its important to give them time, if you cant give time to other's there is no way a relationship can be restored.
- Understand other person needs and see what is that you can offer. Great relationships are those where things are done even without being said.
- Give and take always matters. If you have an attitude that always people should come to you, your are actually moving away from others without your own realization.
- There is nothing as a wrong attitude or incorrect approach. A person behaves according to what he or she has experienced in life, if you can understand this simple fact then you would always be happy.
- Do not look for perfection, this is the biggest mistake most of us do in dealing with people. There is no need for perfection, neither your god was ever perfect !!!
- Learn from mistakes and put it back into your learning. Re evaluate yourself every 2-3 yrs, more you learn from life more you should become better person for society.
Building relationships is not a big task as building ships, though people simply do not want to put effort. Remember your living among society not in Himalayas so having great relationships is the only way for a successful life !!!
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